Virginia Same-Sex Divorce Lawyer: Protecting Your Rights in Maryland and Virginia

Virginia Same-Sex Divorce Lawyer: Protecting Your Rights in Maryland and Virginia

As of November 2025, the following information applies. In Virginia and Maryland, same-sex divorce involves the dissolution of marriage between two individuals of the same gender, addressing vital aspects like property division, spousal support, and child custody, consistent with general divorce laws. The Law Offices Of SRIS, P.C. provides dedicated legal defense for these matters.

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What is Same-Sex Divorce in Virginia?

Same-sex divorce in Virginia means legally ending a marriage between two people of the same gender. Just like any other divorce, it involves navigating things like dividing assets and debts, figuring out child custody and visitation, and determining if spousal support (sometimes called alimony) is appropriate. Virginia law treats same-sex divorces the same as heterosexual divorces, ensuring equal rights and responsibilities. However, because same-sex marriage was legalized more recently, there can sometimes be unique considerations, especially regarding the history of a couple’s relationship and asset acquisition prior to official marriage recognition.


Takeaway Summary: Same-sex divorce in Virginia follows the same legal principles as any other divorce, focusing on equitable solutions for property, children, and support. (Confirmed by Law Offices Of SRIS, P.C.)

How to Approach a Same-Sex Divorce in Virginia?

Approaching a same-sex divorce can feel overwhelming, but breaking it down into clear steps helps.

  1. Understand Your Rights and Obligations

    Before doing anything else, it’s vital to understand what Virginia law says about your situation. This includes knowing your rights regarding property, children, and financial support. Every case is unique, so what applies to one couple might not apply to another.

  2. Gather Financial Documentation

    Divorce often involves dividing assets and debts. Start collecting all relevant financial documents: bank statements, tax returns, investment records, property deeds, and any information about retirement accounts. The more organized you are, the smoother this part of the process can be.

  3. Consider Child Custody and Support

    If you have children, their well-being is paramount. Think about what kind of custody arrangement works best for them – shared custody, sole custody, and a visitation schedule. Also, consider child support calculations based on Virginia guidelines. This needs careful thought and often requires an empathetic approach.

  4. Seek a Confidential Case Review

    Don’t try to go it alone. Talking with a seasoned attorney who understands Virginia family law, especially in the context of same-sex relationships, is a smart move. They can provide guidance, explain your options, and help you develop a strategy tailored to your specific needs.

  5. Explore Resolution Options

    Not all divorces end up in a courtroom battle. You can explore options like mediation or collaborative divorce, which can sometimes be less confrontational and more cost-effective. Your legal counsel can help you decide which path is right for you and your family.

Can I get Custody Rights in a Same-Sex Divorce in Virginia?

Absolutely. In Virginia, the law protects the parental rights of both spouses in a same-sex divorce, just as it does in heterosexual divorces. The court’s primary focus is always on the best interests of the child. This means that if you are a legal parent, either biologically or through adoption or other recognized legal means, you have the same rights to seek custody, visitation, and support as any other parent. The court will consider factors like the child’s age, mental and physical condition, the parents’ fitness, and the child’s relationship with each parent to make a determination that serves the child’s welfare. It doesn’t matter if your marriage is same-sex; your parental rights are equally valid and defensible under Virginia law. We can help you navigate these sensitive discussions and advocate for your relationship with your children.

Why Hire Law Offices Of SRIS, P.C.?

When you’re facing a same-sex divorce in Virginia or Maryland, you need legal representation that understands the nuances of family law and approaches your situation with both empathy and a direct focus on results. At the Law Offices Of SRIS, P.C., we offer just that.

Insight from Mr. Sris: “My focus since founding the firm in 1997 has always been directed towards personally managing the most challenging family law matters our clients face.”

This commitment to personal attention and a deep understanding of the law means you’re not just another case file. Mr. Sris and the seasoned team at Law Offices Of SRIS, P.C. are dedicated to protecting your rights, whether it involves property division, spousal support, or the delicate matters of child custody and visitation. We bring years of experience to the table, fighting for fair outcomes for our clients in Virginia and Maryland.

Law Offices Of SRIS, P.C. has locations in Virginia, including our Fairfax office, which is ready to assist you. Our address is 4008 Williamsburg Court, Fairfax, VA, 22032, US, and you can reach us at +1-703-636-5417. We’re here to provide clarity and strong advocacy when you need it most. Call now for a confidential case review.

Frequently Asked Questions

Q: How long does a same-sex divorce typically take in Virginia?

A: The duration of a same-sex divorce in Virginia varies significantly based on whether it’s contested or uncontested. An uncontested divorce with a separation agreement can be finalized in about six months, while a contested divorce can take a year or more, depending on the issues involved and court schedules.

Q: Is spousal support handled differently in same-sex divorces?

A: No, spousal support (alimony) in same-sex divorces is handled the same way as in heterosexual divorces under Virginia law. The court considers factors like the length of the marriage, the financial needs of each spouse, and their ability to pay when determining if spousal support is appropriate and for how long.

Q: What if we have property acquired before same-sex marriage was legal?

A: This can be a more nuanced area. Virginia generally divides marital property. Property acquired before marriage is typically separate. However, if separate property was commingled or increased in value due to marital effort, it could become partially marital. Our team can help you sort this out.

Q: Can I get child custody if I am not the biological parent in a same-sex marriage?

A: Yes, if you are a legal parent, such as through adoption or by being a recognized parent in the child’s life, Virginia courts will consider your custody rights. The focus remains on the child’s best interests, and legal parentage, regardless of biological connection, is a key factor.

Q: Do I need a lawyer for an uncontested same-sex divorce?

A: While you can file an uncontested divorce without a lawyer, it’s highly advisable to have legal counsel review your separation agreement. This ensures your rights are protected, all necessary legal points are covered, and you avoid potential issues down the line.

Q: How is marital debt divided in a same-sex divorce?

A: Marital debt, like marital assets, is subject to equitable distribution in Virginia. This means the court will divide debts fairly, though not necessarily equally. Factors like who incurred the debt and for what purpose, and each spouse’s ability to pay, are considered.

Q: What are the grounds for same-sex divorce in Virginia?

A: Virginia allows for both fault and no-fault divorces. For a no-fault divorce, you must live separately for at least six months with no minor children and a signed agreement, or one year if you have minor children. Fault grounds include adultery, cruelty, or desertion.

Q: What happens if one spouse moves out of Virginia during the divorce?

A: If one spouse moves out of Virginia, it can complicate jurisdiction. Generally, Virginia courts can still handle the divorce if one spouse meets the residency requirements (living in Virginia for at least six months). However, it might impact specific aspects like property division or child custody if new states are involved.

The Law Offices Of SRIS, P.C. has locations in Virginia in Fairfax, Loudoun, Arlington, Shenandoah and Richmond. In Maryland, our location is in Rockville. In New York, we have a location in Buffalo. In New Jersey, we have a location in Tinton Falls.

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